Words Matter: What NOT to Say to Someone with Dementia or Alzheimer’s [Video]

Feeling lost for words when caring for someone with dementia or Alzheimer’s? You’re not alone! This video explores common phrases that can unintentionally cause distress and confusion. Learn powerful communication tips to foster compassion, create a supportive environment, and ensure your words have a positive impact on your loved one.

Dementia and Alzheimer’s can cause memory loss, confusion, and frustration. The way we communicate can make a big difference in their experience. Here are some common phrases to avoid:

“Don’t you remember?” This can be upsetting, especially if they genuinely don’t remember.
“You look confused” – Pointing out confusion can make them feel worse.
Talking down or using “elderspeak” – Treat them with respect and use their preferred name.
Arguing or correcting them – Focus on validating their feelings and de-escalating the situation.
Dwelling on the past – They may be happier focusing on the present moment.

Instead, let’s focus on positive communication strategies:

Speak slowly and clearly.
Use positive affirmations and gentle redirection.
Focus on feelings and validate their emotions.
Create a calm and predictable environment.
Use photos and familiar objects as prompts.

By being mindful of our words and communication style, we can create a more supportive and understanding environment for our loved ones with dementia. Remember, compassion and patience are key.

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